I've talked about it before, but I'll set the stage again. Divorced for 2 years, in a unknown town (St Louis), with 2 young kids half the time.
I'm obviously dating and the main source of this is through dating apps. I think I'm up to five and I'm unimpressed, but it gets the job done from time to time. Observations:
-There must be a bunch of losers out there, because having your shit together gets you a long way.
-There also must be a BUNCH of creeps on these, because likes are at a premium and I'm a good looking guy, pretty fit, and have my shit together. Another thing that I need to work on are my profiles. I do not like talking about myself or taking photos of myself.
-You are set in your ways in your 40s and for me it shows, because finding someone you click with is hard and I'm lowered my "requirements" a bit and still it's really hard to find someone worth a shit. I'm looking for a spark and that redhead I was dating a few months ago has been it. Man she was hot and really nice, but crazy.
Onto my latest adventure. I meet this gal that's polyamorous and is married. I have nothing going on that would keep me from seeing where this goes, so we're meeting next Wednesday at her house. The husband will be there (upstairs apparently). No cuck situation or threesome situation, I asked. We're just meeting and seeing what happens from there. I've never done anything like this in my life, but down for the experience. One side of me thinks I'm going to get murdered, other side is just going with it. I will be texting a friend the address, photo, and info before I step foot into the place. I don't expect it'll go well, so it sets me up nicely if it does. Any experience with this or advise? I wouldn't do it if it wasn't worth it, girl is really hot again.
Go.
I'm obviously dating and the main source of this is through dating apps. I think I'm up to five and I'm unimpressed, but it gets the job done from time to time. Observations:
-There must be a bunch of losers out there, because having your shit together gets you a long way.
-There also must be a BUNCH of creeps on these, because likes are at a premium and I'm a good looking guy, pretty fit, and have my shit together. Another thing that I need to work on are my profiles. I do not like talking about myself or taking photos of myself.
-You are set in your ways in your 40s and for me it shows, because finding someone you click with is hard and I'm lowered my "requirements" a bit and still it's really hard to find someone worth a shit. I'm looking for a spark and that redhead I was dating a few months ago has been it. Man she was hot and really nice, but crazy.
Onto my latest adventure. I meet this gal that's polyamorous and is married. I have nothing going on that would keep me from seeing where this goes, so we're meeting next Wednesday at her house. The husband will be there (upstairs apparently). No cuck situation or threesome situation, I asked. We're just meeting and seeing what happens from there. I've never done anything like this in my life, but down for the experience. One side of me thinks I'm going to get murdered, other side is just going with it. I will be texting a friend the address, photo, and info before I step foot into the place. I don't expect it'll go well, so it sets me up nicely if it does. Any experience with this or advise? I wouldn't do it if it wasn't worth it, girl is really hot again.
Go.
